Trust, Love and Devotion: A Journey to Deeper Intimacy

What: Partner Sacred Intimacy Practices reflections

When: mid December 

By: Martina 

Rod’s heart is tender this morning. I feel for him, I can see that he’s been awake during the night. I feel that his body and being are working through some deep things right now. 

During my walk and my solo practice, I wonder if I “should” have turned his alarm off, so he can sleep a bit longer. 

Then I come back to trust. Trusting that he will know what’s right for him. And it’s not for me to manage what’s going on. 

When we sit down for partner practice, I see his vulnerability, the hurt in his heart. Our practice includes this, there’s space for his feelings to be seen and acknowledged. 

When it’s my turn to reveal how I feel, I notice a fleeting thought “should I express how I feel about what’s going on for him?” 

As soon as the thought arises my awareness dismisses it, I dive deep into my body and feelings, I become immersed in the sensations and feelings moving within me. 

Ohh the relief, this is the medicine. 

I realise that being the love that I am, allowing love to move, animate, and radiate through my body is a gift, for him and for me. 

There’s no need for me to get lost in Rod’s experience, in fact, that would be detrimental to him. 

I say “I feel so much love and so grateful for our life together.” 

He says “I see the way love is moving through your body and your face.” 

He sees the beauty, the softness and openness in me, as well as the cheeky, playful desire. I feel so blessed to be fully seen for all of who I am, by this amazing man. 

Then a timer goes and we shift into another stage of practice. 

I say “I want to press my love against your body.” 

He says “I want some of that now.” 

We move to the bed and I lovingly touch and caress him. In such a way that I am fully embracing him and how he feels, devoted to this moment. Whilst also feeling the pleasure and delight of offering him love. 

Feeling completely free and available for love to move through me and to be a gift for him. 

Practice continues… and when it comes to an end, we are both deeply grateful for the love that has been shared. 

This is the embodiment of trust and love. I trust that he’s got this. I allow love to move through me as an offering of devotion. 

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